thehappyfatgirl:

Another beautiful pledge to help all of us love our own bodies and to respect everyone else’s!

thehappyfatgirl:

Another beautiful pledge to help all of us love our own bodies and to respect everyone else’s!

entwined-but-never-joined asked: No one is looking at you or thinking badly about you. You are a good woman. You are a priority.

Thank youuu

mythaelogy:

that’s a steep price for what’s been done

whitecourtkellyrhea:

Congrats on having a perfect body! Marvel at that skin with its stretch marks, freckles, bruises, scars, off color spots, and all of those other little marks that took your body from blank canvas to map of your life. Look at you, you wonderful thing.

momma-taye:

These grapes look like they have stretch marks, which is really cool because grapes are awesome and nobody cares if they have stretch marks or think they’re ugly so it gives me hope. (;

momma-taye:

These grapes look like they have stretch marks, which is really cool because grapes are awesome and nobody cares if they have stretch marks or think they’re ugly so it gives me hope. (;

fatfeedeeswine:

lperczart:

Battling my weight has always been somewhat of a common occurrence for me. I’ll go through periods when I don’t care what I look like or what others think about me and other times I’ll hesitate to leave the house. Our society puts so much emphasis on the way people should look, how we should eat, how we should be. Even the people closest to you seem to always have an opinion about your body.
For me, sometimes I feel like my head is drowning. All of these phrases and labels are thrown around and are essentially pushed down our throats. How am I supposed to form any sort of opinion about myself? How am I supposed to love who I am when all I know of myself is what I hear through other people’s mouths?
My second Insecurity piece for my Love Thy Self series. I’m so proud of this one and it’s all true. These are direct quotes I’ve heard from people I know, magazines, tv, etc. It just seems to be never-ending and it can be hard to keep my head above water sometimes but at the end of the day, deep down, I do love who I am. NOT based on the way I look but I know that I am a good person and that’s all that matters. If you don’t like me because of the way I look then I don’t need you in my life.

Yess! Fat is just a body type. Not the completeness of one’s mind & soul. A body type Which I happen to love. So just know if someone out there loves it,many others do too. And this is coming from a fat girl lol I learned to see things like fat shaming as just one of the many circumstances we face along with race,sexual preference, clothes or whatever. And I always discovered, where you may see 50 people who don’t like your size, I can show you 1050 that DO. Where you may meet 30 racist/sexist people, I can show you 300 who aren’t. It’s just an undisputed fact. But we should all be more loving and stop with the hate and judging. Besides, people who take out time to spew hatred and meanness, clearly doesn’t have a very happy, fulfilling life as It is. So just pray for the next hater you see and watch god keep blessing you;) #fatacceptance #fa #proudfatty #perceptionisEVERYTHING this part is quoted by me ssbbwfeedee14 

fatfeedeeswine:

lperczart:

Battling my weight has always been somewhat of a common occurrence for me. I’ll go through periods when I don’t care what I look like or what others think about me and other times I’ll hesitate to leave the house. Our society puts so much emphasis on the way people should look, how we should eat, how we should be. Even the people closest to you seem to always have an opinion about your body.

For me, sometimes I feel like my head is drowning. All of these phrases and labels are thrown around and are essentially pushed down our throats. How am I supposed to form any sort of opinion about myself? How am I supposed to love who I am when all I know of myself is what I hear through other people’s mouths?

My second Insecurity piece for my Love Thy Self series. I’m so proud of this one and it’s all true. These are direct quotes I’ve heard from people I know, magazines, tv, etc. It just seems to be never-ending and it can be hard to keep my head above water sometimes but at the end of the day, deep down, I do love who I am. NOT based on the way I look but I know that I am a good person and that’s all that matters. If you don’t like me because of the way I look then I don’t need you in my life.

Yess! Fat is just a body type. Not the completeness of one’s mind & soul. A body type Which I happen to love. So just know if someone out there loves it,many others do too. And this is coming from a fat girl lol I learned to see things like fat shaming as just one of the many circumstances we face along with race,sexual preference, clothes or whatever. And I always discovered, where you may see 50 people who don’t like your size, I can show you 1050 that DO. Where you may meet 30 racist/sexist people, I can show you 300 who aren’t. It’s just an undisputed fact. But we should all be more loving and stop with the hate and judging. Besides, people who take out time to spew hatred and meanness, clearly doesn’t have a very happy, fulfilling life as It is. So just pray for the next hater you see and watch god keep blessing you;) #fatacceptance #fa #proudfatty #perceptionisEVERYTHING this part is quoted by me ssbbwfeedee14 

Beauty

silicunt:

We are taught that beauty is defined by what other people deem as attractive.

We are taught that there is a textbook definition of what beauty is.

When we think of beauty, we think of another idea.

When was the last time that you thought of the word “beauty” and thought of yourself.

We set the standard of “I’m not perfect, therefore I’m not beautiful”.

But beauty is in imperfection.

Beauty is what we create, and what we make.

Come to the realization that as long as you are you, you’re beautiful.

Stop thinking about what people find ugly.

Because we all have opinions.

I think I found self love today.

Because I am me. I am myself. And no one can take me away from me.

That’s what’s beautiful.

We all have the ability to hold ourselves forever, and define what we want.

Beauty is not being thin. Beauty is not having big boobs and a fat butt. Beauty is not having clear skin. Beauty is not being in a completely sane state of mind.

Beauty is finding those imperfections and loving them. Owning up to them and walking with your head up without worrying about what others think.

People, are the root of self hatred.

You can love yourself, and you do need to love yourself.

Because it’s the best feeling ever. Create yourself and be what you define as beauty. What you think is beautiful.

And I wrote this to not only remind myself, but others that we are all so beautiful in this world and we can create everything and anything we desire if we just stop letting everyone define what we think is beautiful.

Call yourself beautiful everyday, become narcissistic, fall in love with yourself. Treat yourself like you’re your own soulmate, because in turn, you are.

Everything is somewhat temporary in our lives, except what we are. And how beautiful we all are.

Stop listening to other people. Listen to yourself.  

My name is Lili or Olivia.
20 yrs old; Straight.
These are my thoughts.